WHY SHOULD YOU NOT BE WORRIED BY SINGLENESS

by Lady Grace 

I once heard someone say that desperation smell stronger than perfume and I have come to believe that this is indeed true. Most women are so desperate that they end up living a lifestyle engaging in back-to-back relationships that keeps ending just as quickly as they started. And only a few of them have the sense to wake up and realize that they are the one with the problems and not the men. You see, many of you ladies are interested in a relationship not for the benefit of the men, but for your own selfish desires, simply because you don't want to be alone. You don't like being by yourself as you have grown to basically despise yourself. You may not believe this to be true, but let me ask you, when was the last time you dated you, bought you beautiful expensive flowers, give yourself a foot massage, or better yet cooked a romantic meal for you, including dressing the table with candles and wearing your most beautiful dress after you've gotten all dolled up? Probably, never and that's my point. You see before you want to be with others you must first learn to love and appreciate you. You must cherish singleness before you want to be taken. If you do so, soon you'll realize that you are not lonely as you got you and won't even notice your friends who are maybe marring away. Always remember that singleness is not loneliness, but rather a blessing. As it gives you the opportunity to love, discover and appreciate you. So learn to enjoy you! 

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